Reasons Why Men Suck!
1. They make you want them over and over again, and each time they hurt you like before
2. Do things to get on your nerves!
3. They make you want them over and over again, and each time they hurt you like before
4. Always need there hair braided or cut
5. They also tell your best friend secrets and expect them not to tell you. Real smart!
6. When they’re with their girlfriend they look at other girls
7. Scratch there you know what every 5 minutes
8. Everything they do is a competition
9. The worst thing a man can do is leave the toilet seat up!
10. Um, hi my eyes are up here, stop staring at my chest
11. They just can't be satisfied w/ one female
12. They don't take no for an answer
11. Take advantage when you’re most vulernable
13. Think they could get anyone they wanted
14. Tell every friend a lie how how far they've gotten with you
15. When they break up with you there with another girl in 2 mins
16. Go after girls that are all hoochified but when you dress like that they make you cover up
17. They let what their friends have to say impact them so much, it influences the decisions they make about everything
18. Men hate to share there feels
19. For some reseason they believe that women belong in the kitchen
20. After a couple months of dating they don't act sweet or try to impress you anymore
21. Act totally different towards you when they are around there friends
22. They can't settle down.
23. They are obsessed with their penises
Celebrate The Holiday's With Turkey, and some Thanksgiving Romance!
- Buy a black thong (or his favorite color) and put it in a little box in his briefcase or somewhere he'll find it throughout the day.
- Buy all his favourite snacks and beers and allow him to spend a whole evening in front of the tv watching whatever he wants to watch.
- Write several love notes for your girlfriend/wife and hide them in different places like her purse, etc.
- The next time you see her (assuming she's found all of them) hide red rose buds in all the same places. She'll love it!Put a red rose on her pillow where she'll see it when she goes to bed or first thing in the morning
Cyber Wedding!
Yes you can actually get married online. That sounds so much fun when your getting to know someone off the net and you fall in love with that person. I think it adds something different to the world of cyber love. This would help many people get married without going to actually seeing that person due to no money or separted by distance. On this website (www.liveweb.com) you can walk down the virtual wedding aisle and get cyber-wed. After the ceremony you'll be showered in confetti and receive a keepsake printable certificate. But this is not legally binding. But it sounds fun!
Adanced Flirting 101: Part 3
Use "Mirroring" Body Language - "Mirroring" is a kind of unspoken communication, where you copy - or "mirror" - the other person's body language. So if he's got his arms crossed, you cross your arms too; if he runs his hand through his hair, you do the same.
Don't do exactly everything he does, or you'll end up looking like a monkey! But by gracefully mirroring some of his gestures, his brain gets the subconscious message that you like him. This is a great trick for helping someone relax when you're flirting with them at a party.
Whisper - For advanced flirters, this is one of the all-time classic flirting tricks. When you're in a conversation with a guy, ask him if you can tell him a secret, then lean in to his ear and whisper a sincere compliment ("You have really good taste in clothes").
Drop It! - This one is so old-fashioned, your mom probably used it. There's a reason it's a classic though - this flirting staple hardly ever fails! Walk past a guy you like, making eye contact with him and giving him a nice smile. Then just when you're passing him, drop something (a book, your bag, whatever).
If he's at all interested in you, he'll bend down to help you pick it up- and voila! There's your opportunity to start chatting. Ask for His Help - Creating opportunities for your crush to "help" you will give him a confidence boost and make him feel more comfortable and assured around you.
Pick something you're sure he's good at, like helping you practice a part in a play, showing you how to stretch before running, getting your car started, or solving a problem. Devious? Maybe- but it works! Repeat His Name - Repeating a guy's name in conversation sends a message directly to his subconscious that you are interested in him.
Don't go overboard ("Yes Billy, I agree, Billy, that the mall, Billy, is very fun, Billy!")!!! Saying his name a few times through the conversation is enough - and a very effective flirting technique.
Don't do exactly everything he does, or you'll end up looking like a monkey! But by gracefully mirroring some of his gestures, his brain gets the subconscious message that you like him. This is a great trick for helping someone relax when you're flirting with them at a party.
Whisper - For advanced flirters, this is one of the all-time classic flirting tricks. When you're in a conversation with a guy, ask him if you can tell him a secret, then lean in to his ear and whisper a sincere compliment ("You have really good taste in clothes").
Drop It! - This one is so old-fashioned, your mom probably used it. There's a reason it's a classic though - this flirting staple hardly ever fails! Walk past a guy you like, making eye contact with him and giving him a nice smile. Then just when you're passing him, drop something (a book, your bag, whatever).
If he's at all interested in you, he'll bend down to help you pick it up- and voila! There's your opportunity to start chatting. Ask for His Help - Creating opportunities for your crush to "help" you will give him a confidence boost and make him feel more comfortable and assured around you.
Pick something you're sure he's good at, like helping you practice a part in a play, showing you how to stretch before running, getting your car started, or solving a problem. Devious? Maybe- but it works! Repeat His Name - Repeating a guy's name in conversation sends a message directly to his subconscious that you are interested in him.
Don't go overboard ("Yes Billy, I agree, Billy, that the mall, Billy, is very fun, Billy!")!!! Saying his name a few times through the conversation is enough - and a very effective flirting technique.
Flirting 101: Part 2
Listen- You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak! Listening is a true art, and the best conversationalists all have great listening skills in common. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you if you master this simple skill. Everyone loves to be listened to.
Ask Questions - Show you are interested in what a guy is saying by asking for more details. If he says he plays baseball, ask what position. If he mentions a movie he saw, ask him to tell you more about the story. You get the picture! Asking questions proves you have been listening, and sends the message that you find him interesting. Guys find this very flattering (wouldn't you?).
Use Innocent Touch - When talking to a guy, lightly touch his arm when you're making a point or laughing at something he has said. Don't overdo it, just a few times in a conversation is enough to send the message that you like him. If you have chemistry with a guy, he'll figure it out fast just from the touch of your fingertips.
Don't Argue - Think Jerry Seinfeld and Elaine Benes, not Mr. And Mrs. Kostanza. Playful banter is fine - it shows off your sense of humor and can help create a bond with a guy you're talking to. But don't try to show off by insisting on your point, or you'll be remembered as "don't date" material.
Be Confident - People are drawn to other people who have confidence. Confidence radiates like the sun - others can sense when you have it. It's all about walking with your head held high and knowing that if a guy doesn't respond to your flirting, it's his loss, not yours. Know you are a catch and you'll send that signal to others
Ask Questions - Show you are interested in what a guy is saying by asking for more details. If he says he plays baseball, ask what position. If he mentions a movie he saw, ask him to tell you more about the story. You get the picture! Asking questions proves you have been listening, and sends the message that you find him interesting. Guys find this very flattering (wouldn't you?).
Use Innocent Touch - When talking to a guy, lightly touch his arm when you're making a point or laughing at something he has said. Don't overdo it, just a few times in a conversation is enough to send the message that you like him. If you have chemistry with a guy, he'll figure it out fast just from the touch of your fingertips.
Don't Argue - Think Jerry Seinfeld and Elaine Benes, not Mr. And Mrs. Kostanza. Playful banter is fine - it shows off your sense of humor and can help create a bond with a guy you're talking to. But don't try to show off by insisting on your point, or you'll be remembered as "don't date" material.
Be Confident - People are drawn to other people who have confidence. Confidence radiates like the sun - others can sense when you have it. It's all about walking with your head held high and knowing that if a guy doesn't respond to your flirting, it's his loss, not yours. Know you are a catch and you'll send that signal to others
Flirting 101: Part 1
Try to keep up this goes pretty fast. Lets see if you have what it take to be a pro flirt!
Be Open - When you approach someone try doing it with a smile. Let your face show that you're interested in what they are saying. Look that person in the eye and show them you are glad to meet them.
Be Honest - Nobody likes a lair. People can tell whether you are sincere or that you are just faking. Just being yourself is your best bet for flirting technique. If you are open to others, they will be able to sense it.
Be Spontaneous - Try not to think too hard about what you're going to say. Listen to what the other person is saying and respond naturally. Don't worry about what might happen next - live for the moment! You might not get another chance to talk to the person! So just do it!
Smile Alot - You will hear this all the time smile as often as you can! A smile can make you look friendly, confident and easy to talk to. People smile at people who smile! So smile! Call it a chain reaction! Smile!
Make Eye Contact - When talking to a female or male, make sure you have good eye contact. Don't stare! But don't look all around the room, either. Give her or him totally attention. Let him or her know with your eyes that he or she is the only person you rather be talking to!
Be Open - When you approach someone try doing it with a smile. Let your face show that you're interested in what they are saying. Look that person in the eye and show them you are glad to meet them.
Be Honest - Nobody likes a lair. People can tell whether you are sincere or that you are just faking. Just being yourself is your best bet for flirting technique. If you are open to others, they will be able to sense it.
Be Spontaneous - Try not to think too hard about what you're going to say. Listen to what the other person is saying and respond naturally. Don't worry about what might happen next - live for the moment! You might not get another chance to talk to the person! So just do it!
Smile Alot - You will hear this all the time smile as often as you can! A smile can make you look friendly, confident and easy to talk to. People smile at people who smile! So smile! Call it a chain reaction! Smile!
Make Eye Contact - When talking to a female or male, make sure you have good eye contact. Don't stare! But don't look all around the room, either. Give her or him totally attention. Let him or her know with your eyes that he or she is the only person you rather be talking to!
PART 2: Coming Soon!
Outdoor Sex
The purpose of the ideas discussed here is simply to give you and your partner ideas about playing sexually with each other in ways that you will enjoy and will find to be different, fun, adventurous, and exciting. So try it!
Sex Gardening - If you can resist a quickie and you won't it so badly. This is what you should do. Please be careful look around your garden to find a safe spot . Is your garden's visible from the street. Don't worry try growing some plants that give a bit oprivacyay and shelter. Statice and helichrysum are the flowers that are going to stay with you, without fading, for years. You can grow statice either in pots or in the ground. The flowers are available in yellow and pink flowers. As your flower grow you can always pick the flowers after you stick it to her! But try not buy roses. Unless you thrones sticking to your ass!
Sex -n- Ride - This is most favorite places to have outdoor sex. Make sure you are well hidden. Local kids might try to steal your clothes. You don't won't to get caught with your pants down. Don't be scared!
Snow - I know so cold!, But try it! The climate will have some decision on your choice to have sex in the snow, but you and your partner would not be the first couple to go for a walk in the winter, with 6 inches of snow on the ground, who strips down to nothing in the winter cold air and makes love propped against a tree, or on a sleeping bag on top of the snow. The thrill of the sensation of you do it outside will be mind blowing and even getting away with it. Is worth the cold feet!
Sex Gardening - If you can resist a quickie and you won't it so badly. This is what you should do. Please be careful look around your garden to find a safe spot . Is your garden's visible from the street. Don't worry try growing some plants that give a bit oprivacyay and shelter. Statice and helichrysum are the flowers that are going to stay with you, without fading, for years. You can grow statice either in pots or in the ground. The flowers are available in yellow and pink flowers. As your flower grow you can always pick the flowers after you stick it to her! But try not buy roses. Unless you thrones sticking to your ass!
Sex -n- Ride - This is most favorite places to have outdoor sex. Make sure you are well hidden. Local kids might try to steal your clothes. You don't won't to get caught with your pants down. Don't be scared!
Snow - I know so cold!, But try it! The climate will have some decision on your choice to have sex in the snow, but you and your partner would not be the first couple to go for a walk in the winter, with 6 inches of snow on the ground, who strips down to nothing in the winter cold air and makes love propped against a tree, or on a sleeping bag on top of the snow. The thrill of the sensation of you do it outside will be mind blowing and even getting away with it. Is worth the cold feet!
Having Sex after Breaking Up!
Don't have sex! I repeat do not have sex! Let me tell you if you don't want to put the work it takes be in a honest relationship its not worth it. I know it feels good but the temptation! If you can't solve whatever problems caused the split, don't continue to have sex. I know I'm say it a thousand times until you get it! You will stir up all kinds of emotions. And if one of you didn't want to break up. Then think how hard it would be on that one, to go through the pain of making love with somebody who doesn't want to love them back. Here's the simple truth either be in ot out the relationship 100%. Somebody will end up hurt!
Warning Signs: Dysfuntional Relationships
What exactly is dysfunctional? In the dictionary it states that its something that's abnormal or incomplete. What comes to my mind about dysfunctional is that it means something or someone is not capable of coping with society or whatever is making them a little off from most people. Taking control of how much negative comes into your life is very important. I want the reader to understand that they do have power to make changes in there life. However I know that it will be painful but the only way to have peace in your life is to take control. So stop settling for what life brings you and start controlling the damage dysfunction has brought into your life.
Here are some tips of a dysfunctional relationship:
- You feel trapped
- He or she doesn't respect you
- It feels like your loosing yourself in the relationship
- You neve feel good enough
- You want to leave. But you are afraid
- Both needs are never met ( physcial, mentally,spiritually) whatever it may be.
- You occupy your mind. So that you won't have to deal or think about your situtiaon
- It starts off good then back and forth between good and bad. Until it gets worst.
- You feel confined
- You feel you have to fit yourself in someone esle perception of whats right or wrong
Deny Men Sex: Do we cause them pain and suffering?
Women you do not owe men anything! I think I need to repeat this Women you do not owe a man nothing! If you let a man know upfront how you feel about sex in relationship. Don't him change your mind or perssure you into doing something you don't want to do. Its all about you. So respect yourself and what you belive in. Plus no one ever died from not getting some! Women stay strong. It on your terms!
CNN vs Hip Hop Video's
Last month I came across a clip of CNN on yahoo.com. The clip was about how hiphop video's degrade women. The women that are protrade in music video's are sometimes shown with clothes half off there body. But to me this gives society a chance to see different shades of color. I mean the media today is influecuned by hiphop video's. Everything from the soda's we drink to the baby clothes that we buy. Hiphop video's inspire and somestimes promote change. Hiphop makes you want to listen and stand up for what you belive in. HipHop is the future!
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